“We are all hypocrites. We cannot see ourselves
or judge ourselves the way we see and judge others”…Jose Emilio Pacheco (1039 -
2014) was a Mexican poet, essayist, novelist and short story writer. He is
regarded as one of the major Mexican poets of the first half of the 20th
century.
We are all hypocrites!
Have
you ever looked yourself in the mirror
but couldn’t hold still for long enough because of a certain guilt eating you
up from within?
Yes! That’s
your conscience, the good nature
that God has placed inside us to help us keep a check on ourselves, without it,
we are no different from actual beasts in the jungle that live by ending
innocent lives and ripping loving families apart.
However,
it is funny how we constantly feign how we truly feel and the way we do it
quite well just like Hollywood stars. If there is one thing we must know about
conscience, it is that you might be able to hide it, but you cannot hide from
it.
Perhaps it is
better to give in to it and accept reality and reprimand, than to fight it, letting
it break your spirit while you sob alone in your innermost room.
Notwithstanding,
we cannot remove the fact that we all pretend and retain our intentions at one
point or another, perhaps not necessarily to deceive, but also to manage
information wrapped up in systematic situations that third parties can hardly
understand, even when confronted with or by it.
We
make-up false images of ourselves to impress people that probably care less
about us, allowing them to think we are better than who we indeed are, luring
them to race faster than their legs can carry them, only to wear them out
especially when they try to measure up to a perceived class we fake to attain,
but that we were probably not destined to gain in such a way, if at all.
“Children have never been very good at
listening to their elders, but they never failed to imitate them”…James Baldwin
(1924 – 1987) was an American writer and social critic.
Are there role models and mentors in sight?
The
lies and pretenses have been around for as long as even our forefathers could
remember. Nigeria for instance is full of people living phony lives, not
because they want to, but because of peer pressure, fear of failure, insecurity
and the imminent poverty that constantly lurks around, which of course is
shameful as no one wants to be associated with poor people.
The
poverty however is as artificial as can be, why or how? You may ask. Well, it
still bores down to altering the eco-system, disturbance of the natural order
of things.
Massive
corruption, lack of genuine love and passion for one another and by extension
the nation has brought Nigeria to her knees like a goat tied down helplessly
waiting for the slaughter, but who is going to save us from this nasty
predicament though?
I don’t
have all the answers, nonetheless mentors and role models are definitely
important for consideration, but look around you and count aloud how many you
can find, yes you guessed it, as pertinent as they are, they are a scarce
resource.
The
wealthiest guys are usually corrupt or linked to shady deals, many even connive
with government officials to defraud the administration and deprive the
citizens of their rightful entitlements as simple as basic infrastructure, annihilating
the middle class and impoverishing the citizenry without a conscience.
Does it
not amaze you when our elders cherish and respect the laws, culture, education,
living standard and the youths of western nations, but back home they do not
care nor improve the quality of lives and the future of their own so called
future leaders?
How can
they be mentors and role models when they loot public funds and then waste them
on material things that we can as well produce in our country at lower cost? It
is either they are not financially intelligent, or they are outright nasty,
just like actual terrorists.
“Youth is the gift of nature, but age is a work
of art”…Stanislaw Jerzy Lec (1909 – 1966) was a Polish aphorist and poet.
Every kid deserves a shot at greatness!
Youths
of course, are the leaders of tomorrow, the future frontrunners blazing the
trail with the flaming torch, but do they stand a chance in this present
Nigeria where the old folks want to rule and if possible, live forever even at
our expense?
I was
privileged to meet the acquaintance of a fairly old lad who has travelled the
world and gained experience from a blissful career. Interestingly, he called my
attention to an involvement of his when he had a meeting with a young CEO of a
huge company, and surprisingly, he couldn’t have been more amazed and
intimidated by such a young, bold and vibrant lady who apparently knew exactly
what she wanted, especially from anyone she made contact with professionally
and otherwise.
The
meeting they had, according to him completely wore him out, primarily because
he under-estimated her intelligence, and then she eventually blew him away.
My
point?
If we do not empower and strategically position
our youths and truly believe in them, then there is no future for our dear
nation.
There
is no magic nor any miracle about it, it is a principle, which the western
world figured out a long time ago, which is why they look like super heroes and
we simply succumb to them like buffoons.
“Next time you are faced with a choice, do the
right thing. It hurts everyone less in the long run”…Wendelin Van Draanen (1965
- ) American writer of children’s and young adult fiction.
Perhaps we are not that bad after all…
Whoever
came up with the Good people, Great
nation caption for Nigeria sure did a good job I must say. We really are
good people; it’s just that the prevailing circumstance of mass poverty is
letting people become desperate and aggressive, tempting and luring them to do
things they ordinarily wouldn’t. Not that I’m justifying the apparent lifestyle
that has virtually come to stay, but on a lighter note, some even see it as a
source of motivation for excellence.
Ordinarily,
there is usually lesser crime and unrest in more civil societies where there is
adequate infrastructure and where most of the population has education
available and affordable to them.
“A place that gives wings to my dreams and
hushes my fears, worries and screams.
Where I’d develop stronger wings to fly, rising
so higher, touching the blue sky, that I dream and pray it ends not as a
dream”…A poem by Tony Ajanah , a Nigerian poet.
The Nigeria of our dreams
The
world has gotten better at technology than it was ten years ago, same thing
applies to the medical aspect, pharmacy, education, strategy, sustainable
development and lots more. Even family businesses try harder to pass wealth and
knowledge to the next generation as precious legacies that get better like old
wine.
At this
point, Nigeria barely has a choice
but to move at the same pace at which the world is currently evolving, else she
will be left behind, and the exploding population may one day cause her to self-destruct.
We all
know that a substantial part of development is not rocket science, but rather,
common sense and political will.
We have
given in to deceit and loads of clandestine activities only because of material
gain, which is money at most times. We are neither faithful nor loyal to ourselves,
and this is why it is difficult for us to actually prosper.
We need
to educate the up coming generation that Nigeria will not succeed if we do not grow home based sports, agriculture,
education, manufacturing, technology and celebrate the good aspects of our
culture, rather than looting the treasury of our citizens and wasting them on
unworthy material possessions that fades away, impoverishes us and oppresses
the already downtrodden.
So does
Nigeria have a future? Well, I know one person that can make a difference and
possibly answer the question, but first I’d say you might as well look into the
mirror, as the answer is in our hands.
God
bless Nigeria!
Thank
you, and be awesome because you
truly are.
Akin
Abimbola.
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Truly I must say that..... This write-up is marvelously different from the others I have read. Points well stated from the roots to the leaves....I believe that If we do the right thing, God blessings will rest on us and our country and we will get there in no time.
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ReplyDeleteA person who is watching the other is the best judge
The one who is being watched is the best advocate
THAT’S IS THE HIPROCRACY
This work is a dice of spices and minces of great meats from conscience, poverty, the drag able and propel able strength and intellectual fire of the youths.
We are supposed to be off the state of anarchy long time ago. Right from the creation of rules and regulations, it was expected (optimistically) that that era could be extinct. For some time there was a lot of effort when we were seeing the rewards of these efforts because all were involved as they were equally concerned. Now we see little or no efforts just as the rewards. People now think that money, power, authority counts, event their own lives and never the lives of people; and think they are worthy by their net worth to buy authority, power and justice preventing justice her freedom, robbing peace of her virtue and starting the whole lawless state over again with no sense of remorse
Right now conscience is almost transitioning to extinct art or virtue, it is almost like an antique among the few that are touched by it, the very few that uphold it and the very countable people that pass and instill it into their words, friends and children like clothes, bracelets and necklaces they wear
Making up false images is a trend that fast kills, it tells a lot different from what you know of yourself, and what the mirror thinks of you, which is extremely different from what he society think if you and what they are doing in relation to that thought. THE PROBLEM : people want to run others race they have been running for years (these people have given unbelievable and unsacrificial prices) now to get to the finish line just to upgrade their lives. This does not improve and re-brand you, it breaks and kills you
The inner self dies the death first before any other part of you. Children have never been good at listening to their elders. This is due to garnished lies and necessary but bitter truths, hat makes them worse of or best version of their mentors and role models.
The factors of phony lives have contributed a lot to the life that concerns us to live [THIS IS A KILL,! THIS IS BEAUTIFUL!] The vital stabs that replicates death is lack of faith to cease to work with what you have where you are -which is equal to planting, so far the soil is good, to expect bountiful harvest at their maturity dates, where replicas of the seed the seeds of then have produces flowers, crops and fruits, kept in more barns foe future enjoyment and more planting = the multiplicator effect and theory of legacies.
As for mentors and role models, they are many out there, but the bad and contaminated ones are out for preys, furiously searching for them, while the prey sincerely play their roles, due to their lack of discernment spirit. Good mentors and role models on the other hand wait to be approached while the former go out to be enticed for preys.
WONDERFUL QUOTATION (NUMBER 3). BUT age is never maturity. While youth is a gift of nature, nature is always there with or without the death of man, but gift never cherished and maintained dies, gets lost and go into wrong hands.
Doing the right thing is like the conscience that judges ones actions, and this is rationed severely.
Like old wine (beautiful) but it is well fermented and/or brewed properly, what it the point or a rugged-old-blood money, riches gotten to build legacies, without conscience, desisting from doing the right thing and channeling the strength and intellectual fire to wrong paths, while youths inherit and breed it, just for out would soon be youths to inherit? It is a pyramid that never stops.
Legacy(old wine) = inheritance (of plenty) + breeding (to make a multitude)
It means that what you do with a vision to inherit matters. And that the kind of legacy built eventually turns out to have more than direct effect on the successors and the multitude of its rewards.
Enter your comment...Common sense is not a vast amenity, but political will? Has seized to be nothing since its inception. Will points at desire, choice, willingness and consent ~ there is non like all four in the invention of this day politics.
ReplyDeleteDesire- there is desire of people to put their hope in one man or woman that they think will lead them, and they work hard to cast their votes, abandoning all they are or might be doing that day.
Choice – go different paths = for evil targets optimistically of leaders and positively yielding targets, optimistically too
Willingness – thus is two sided, the one who was voted for has a willingness never to keep to his or her promises. While the one who votes, having faith in whom he or she voted, to trust the actions and words and thoughts to be to everyone’s benefits
CONSENT – NON AT ALL
There can be an education of the up coming generation by examples. Yet, what happens to the present generation
THE MESS STARTED WITH THE LEADERS, CONTINUES WITH THEM AND ENDS WITH US
NIGERIA HAS A FUTURE! BRIGHT BOLD AND BEAUTIFUL
Leaders first then followers, because there are no examples for followers to live by, a leader must serve before he/she us served. If this does not happen followers will be forced to go different directions, by their own life, which is a first example to them and for upcoming youths. HENCE HE NUMBER ONE PATH TO DIVERSITY, FULL DIVISION AND FINALLY A BIG FALL LIKE THAT OF AN ELEPHANT.
ONE PERSON CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE WITH THE DETERMINED SUPPORT OF OTHERS. BUT HOW CAN THIS BE WITHOUT THE SUPPORT OF OTHERS DETERMINEDLY?
IT IS LIKE A COMMUNITY WHERE REFUSE IS INDIRECTLY FROWNED AT, AND NOBODY PARKS HIS REFUSED TO DISPOSE PROPERLY, RATHER INDISCRIMINATE SEWAGE SYSTEM IS CONSTANTLY CELEBRATED. THEN A WOMAN OR A MAN OR EVEN A FAMILY TAKES UPON THEMSELVES TO ENGAGE IN PROPER WASTE DISPOSAL FOR THE COMMUNITY. MAY BE DAILY, OR WEEKLY OR EVERY TWO WEEKS, THE. MOMENT THEY ARE DONE, THEY WILL SEE HE LITER ALL OVER AGAIN. THEY CAN’T CURTAIL IT AND SO THEY WILL BE TOO TIRED, TOO WEAK AND/OR TOO DISCOURAGED TO TRY.
The answer is in Nigeria, among the leaders we voted, which were never counted as leaders disappoint the nation, benefit from her by looting her wealth and riches, there by disappointing themselves and disappointing their followers too
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