“We are all hypocrites. We cannot see ourselves
or judge ourselves the way we see and judge others”…Jose Emilio Pacheco (1039 -
2014) was a Mexican poet, essayist, novelist and short story writer. He is
regarded as one of the major Mexican poets of the first half of the 20th
century.
We are all hypocrites!
Have
you ever looked yourself in the mirror
but couldn’t hold still for long enough because of a certain guilt eating you
up from within?
Yes! That’s
your conscience, the good nature
that God has placed inside us to help us keep a check on ourselves, without it,
we are no different from actual beasts in the jungle that live by ending
innocent lives and ripping loving families apart.
However,
it is funny how we constantly feign how we truly feel and the way we do it
quite well just like Hollywood stars. If there is one thing we must know about
conscience, it is that you might be able to hide it, but you cannot hide from
it.
Perhaps it is
better to give in to it and accept reality and reprimand, than to fight it, letting
it break your spirit while you sob alone in your innermost room.
Notwithstanding,
we cannot remove the fact that we all pretend and retain our intentions at one
point or another, perhaps not necessarily to deceive, but also to manage
information wrapped up in systematic situations that third parties can hardly
understand, even when confronted with or by it.
We
make-up false images of ourselves to impress people that probably care less
about us, allowing them to think we are better than who we indeed are, luring
them to race faster than their legs can carry them, only to wear them out
especially when they try to measure up to a perceived class we fake to attain,
but that we were probably not destined to gain in such a way, if at all.
“Children have never been very good at
listening to their elders, but they never failed to imitate them”…James Baldwin
(1924 – 1987) was an American writer and social critic.
Are there role models and mentors in sight?
The
lies and pretenses have been around for as long as even our forefathers could
remember. Nigeria for instance is full of people living phony lives, not
because they want to, but because of peer pressure, fear of failure, insecurity
and the imminent poverty that constantly lurks around, which of course is
shameful as no one wants to be associated with poor people.
The
poverty however is as artificial as can be, why or how? You may ask. Well, it
still bores down to altering the eco-system, disturbance of the natural order
of things.
Massive
corruption, lack of genuine love and passion for one another and by extension
the nation has brought Nigeria to her knees like a goat tied down helplessly
waiting for the slaughter, but who is going to save us from this nasty
predicament though?
I don’t
have all the answers, nonetheless mentors and role models are definitely
important for consideration, but look around you and count aloud how many you
can find, yes you guessed it, as pertinent as they are, they are a scarce
resource.
The
wealthiest guys are usually corrupt or linked to shady deals, many even connive
with government officials to defraud the administration and deprive the
citizens of their rightful entitlements as simple as basic infrastructure, annihilating
the middle class and impoverishing the citizenry without a conscience.
Does it
not amaze you when our elders cherish and respect the laws, culture, education,
living standard and the youths of western nations, but back home they do not
care nor improve the quality of lives and the future of their own so called
future leaders?
How can
they be mentors and role models when they loot public funds and then waste them
on material things that we can as well produce in our country at lower cost? It
is either they are not financially intelligent, or they are outright nasty,
just like actual terrorists.
“Youth is the gift of nature, but age is a work
of art”…Stanislaw Jerzy Lec (1909 – 1966) was a Polish aphorist and poet.
Every kid deserves a shot at greatness!
Youths
of course, are the leaders of tomorrow, the future frontrunners blazing the
trail with the flaming torch, but do they stand a chance in this present
Nigeria where the old folks want to rule and if possible, live forever even at
our expense?
I was
privileged to meet the acquaintance of a fairly old lad who has travelled the
world and gained experience from a blissful career. Interestingly, he called my
attention to an involvement of his when he had a meeting with a young CEO of a
huge company, and surprisingly, he couldn’t have been more amazed and
intimidated by such a young, bold and vibrant lady who apparently knew exactly
what she wanted, especially from anyone she made contact with professionally
and otherwise.
The
meeting they had, according to him completely wore him out, primarily because
he under-estimated her intelligence, and then she eventually blew him away.
My
point?
If we do not empower and strategically position
our youths and truly believe in them, then there is no future for our dear
nation.
There
is no magic nor any miracle about it, it is a principle, which the western
world figured out a long time ago, which is why they look like super heroes and
we simply succumb to them like buffoons.
“Next time you are faced with a choice, do the
right thing. It hurts everyone less in the long run”…Wendelin Van Draanen (1965
- ) American writer of children’s and young adult fiction.
Perhaps we are not that bad after all…
Whoever
came up with the Good people, Great
nation caption for Nigeria sure did a good job I must say. We really are
good people; it’s just that the prevailing circumstance of mass poverty is
letting people become desperate and aggressive, tempting and luring them to do
things they ordinarily wouldn’t. Not that I’m justifying the apparent lifestyle
that has virtually come to stay, but on a lighter note, some even see it as a
source of motivation for excellence.
Ordinarily,
there is usually lesser crime and unrest in more civil societies where there is
adequate infrastructure and where most of the population has education
available and affordable to them.
“A place that gives wings to my dreams and
hushes my fears, worries and screams.
Where I’d develop stronger wings to fly, rising
so higher, touching the blue sky, that I dream and pray it ends not as a
dream”…A poem by Tony Ajanah , a Nigerian poet.
The Nigeria of our dreams
The
world has gotten better at technology than it was ten years ago, same thing
applies to the medical aspect, pharmacy, education, strategy, sustainable
development and lots more. Even family businesses try harder to pass wealth and
knowledge to the next generation as precious legacies that get better like old
wine.
At this
point, Nigeria barely has a choice
but to move at the same pace at which the world is currently evolving, else she
will be left behind, and the exploding population may one day cause her to self-destruct.
We all
know that a substantial part of development is not rocket science, but rather,
common sense and political will.
We have
given in to deceit and loads of clandestine activities only because of material
gain, which is money at most times. We are neither faithful nor loyal to ourselves,
and this is why it is difficult for us to actually prosper.
We need
to educate the up coming generation that Nigeria will not succeed if we do not grow home based sports, agriculture,
education, manufacturing, technology and celebrate the good aspects of our
culture, rather than looting the treasury of our citizens and wasting them on
unworthy material possessions that fades away, impoverishes us and oppresses
the already downtrodden.
So does
Nigeria have a future? Well, I know one person that can make a difference and
possibly answer the question, but first I’d say you might as well look into the
mirror, as the answer is in our hands.
God
bless Nigeria!
Thank
you, and be awesome because you
truly are.
Akin
Abimbola.
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